Monday, November 7, 2011

Rumchatta, Bingo, Painting, Reconnecting, and Crying

Haven't written on my blog in a little while so this one might be a little long.  Thursday I worked all day from 8-6pm, then met my mom and grandpa for dinner at Boulder Junction.  I tried this drink called a Rumchatta Black Russian....OMFG it was soooo yummy, but one knocked me on my butt!  Friday I worked 8-11:30 because I had to take momma donna to the doctor to get ger MRI and MRA....everything went well there.  We ran some errands (The Scrapbook Store, bank, bring food to Suzi) and when dropping off food for Suzi (Suzi is Momma Donna's friend who's daughter has terminal cancer) we stayed and talked.  Suzi is a wonderful person, she is very strong and I have no idea how she's doing so well through all of this with her daughter.  She has this prescence about her that makes me calm and like everything will be okay.  I don't know her well but I feel like I do.  She also gives great hugs (which is weird because I don't hug most people, just a select few).  After Suzi's house we picked up Malissa (my sissy) and went to Bingo at the casino!  My sissy just turned 18 so this was her first time at the casino.  It was Auntie Anna, Momma Donna, Malissa, and me!  None of us won anything but we had a great time.  However, I could have done without the lady next to me that kept dropping her ass and smelling up the table :( 


Saturday I worked until 1 and then came home, took a shower, ate some sushi, and just relaxed the whole night (I had a headache and felt like I was getting a cold).  Sunday I woke up and took a shower and went to my aunt Mary's house.  Sunday was the day that my auntie Mary and mom were going to meet and try to reconcile, because they haven't talked in years.  The three of us had lunch at Panera and came back to my aunts house to talk.  They talked and it went really well!  My uncle is away for 2 weeks so a few weeks ago my aunt and I went to pick out furniture for their family room because it has been empty since they've lived there (like since 1998).  The furniture was being delivered Sunday and we were also starting to paint as well.  We had a good time painting, and had some good conversation.

  Later on that night we had a huge fight at my house with Papa.  It all started with Papa and Malissa, and just escalated from there.  By the end of the night we had all cried or were crying.  We didn't stop our little discussion until after 11pm....by then I was tired and emotionally drained!  I forgot to mention that before the fight/discussion that momma donna and I took food to Suzi again and we sat and talked with her for a little bit.  I won't say what we talked about because it hits close to my heart and has been something that I've been struggling with for awhile, however Suzi said something that made me feel a little better and brought back some hope for me.  So thank you Suzi, I really appreciate you and your wonderful hugs.  Between Suzi and Momma Donna, I feel really loved and cared about.  Thank you! You two are wonderful and amazing women!

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